1. It is (and should be) a one-time thing.
You must never see him again. You came, you saw and you conquered. Move on.
2. He will never leave his wife.
No matter what you think, marriage is a bond, and you'd have to have a magic vagina to break that up.
3. You do not want to be a stepmom.
You can barely take care of your student loans and apartment. Are you really equipped to handle dirty diapers and hours of "Dora the Explorer?" I think not.
4. You will close yourself off to other relationships.
If you're chasing a silver fox, you can't see the strong sexy bear in your backyard.5. He's been through real-life experiences that you haven't been through yet.
You're always going to be on two separate pages, no matter how proud you are of raising your goldfish.
6. The sex is good, but it's empty.
He is thinking about his wife when she was younger while he's sleeping with you. He's thinking about what she'd think, and whether or not she'd divorce him. You are just a body.
Affairs can be hot and a good time for all involved, but at the end of the day, very few work out. If you need to get it out of your system once, then do so. Do it in a remote and faraway place from his wife and family.
