Thomas and Margaret Whitfield were my mother’s parents, which meant they had watched my family dynamics with a long, pained patience. They were the kind of older couple who still held hands in the grocery store without making a show of it, who said please and thank you like it mattered, who believed that love was a verb, not a performance.
When I was a kid, their house smelled like beeswax and cinnamon and old books. Their kitchen table was always sticky with jam and conversation. They never made me feel like I was taking up space. They never sighed when I asked questions. They never compared me to Ashley as if comparison was a sport.
They saw me.
